How to Cope with Bad Neighbors

What on earth can you do about bad neighbors? You go to a lot of trouble to find a home that suits you. Surely you are entitled to live in it in peace?

Yet the most des res in the country can be rendered a veritable hell hole by the people next door. The stress and anguish caused by problem neighbors can thoroughly wreck your peace of mind. Not to mention your health.

Bad neighbors can appear any time

It's not as if you really get to choose who lives next door. You don't choose your home on the basis of who's in the next house. Nor do you have any control over who moves in there after you've settled in your place.

Bad neighbors can become a feature of your life at any time, in any area. But you are not likely to think about this until after the problems have actually started.

Problems with neighbors can be many and various

Lousy neighbors come in all shapes and sizes. Maybe the trouble is noise - their music, their DIY tools buzzing at six am, their boisterously yapping dog, even just the kids yelling.

Trouble can spring from disputes about the boundary - where exactly is it, for instance? Or who is responsible for cutting the hedge or repairing the wall? Why can't they keep their smelly cat on their side?

The problem with resolving neighbor problems

On the face of it, all such matters can be resolved. It might take a bit of negotiation, a bit of compromise on both sides, but surely a mutually satisfactory settlement can be found if people are willing?

Yet all too often it turns out that people are sadly unwilling. And they can turn quite nasty. And then verbal abuse or physical aggression can turn your neighbor problem into a serious nightmare.

Difficult neighbors can damage your health

It's quite common for people living with a long standing serious dispute with their neighbors to begin to suffer from debilitating anxiety and panic attacks. They may even become seriously depressed as time goes by and there is no resolution or let up in the unpleasantness.

You can find that your whole life is taken over by the incessant worry and strain - as if there is just no room for anything else any more.

Don't give bad neighbors power over you

Some help may be found through approaching mediation agencies or appropriate civic authorities (and all such avenues should be carefully explored), but it's also very important to look after yourself in such a situation.

Although it can seem as if giving all your personal time and energy to solving the neighbor problem is a good idea, this is to give them more power over your life than they have any right to.

You need your own space - head space and emotional space. If you find that you have become very worn down by the whole experience, you need a way to recuperate, and a way to build up your defenses so that you can come through in one piece and in good shape.

How hypnosis can help you defend yourself against bad neighbors

Bad Neighbors is an audio hypnosis session which will provide you with exactly the right tools to allow you to begin to wrest back control over your life and your emotions.

Listening to Bad Neighbors will, firstly, give you a very much needed break. You will be taken into a state of deep relaxation which will lift the strain from your body and mind. Once you have done this a few times, you will find it easier and easier to relax deeply whenever you need.

At the heart of Bad Neighbors is an empowering therapeutic trance experience. Powerful hypnotic suggestions guide you effortlessly through the process of creating an effective 'protection system' to 'fence you off' psychologically from the stress which has built up. You will learn how to maintain this protection while at the same time finding new ways to address the practical issues.

Download Bad Neighbors now and go back to living your own life. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.