Use the Stop Trying Too Hard in Relationships Script to Help Clients Develop Healthier Partnerships

Replace clients' unhelpful behavior patterns with a natural approach to love

When people invest excessive amounts of time and energy into a relationship, they tend to ruin their partnership. This often becomes a pattern of behavior that leaves people frustrated, lonely, and resentful.

The Stop Trying Too Hard in Relationships Hypnosis Script from The Script Collection was put together to help clients recognize their behavior patterns and make deliberate choices to change, allowing them to enjoy more fulfilling and balanced relationships.

The script's pre-talk opens by empathizing with the client's behavior. They are reassured that the urge to put effort into relationships is natural and, when acted upon appropriately, healthy. They are reminded that putting in work can increase both partners' levels of satisfaction and ensure that their union continues to provide benefits as it ages.

The client is reminded that despite the benefits that hard work can bring to a relationship, it can also cause problems. Examples of over-watering a plant, drinking too much water, and ingesting unhealthy amounts of vitamins are used to illustrate how too much of a good thing can lead to suboptimal results.

The script articulates specific ways that trying too hard can affect the client's partner and, as a result, their relationship. The client is assured that hypnosis can help them and some specific benefits are listed.

The induction begins by asking the client to tightly clench their fists and focus on taking deep breaths. They are guided to squeeze their hands tighter and tighter until an embedded command instructs them to relax.

As the client begins to relax, they are asked to take notice of the deeply calm feeling in their now-unclenched hands. Their focus is guided toward the space between their fingers and the air around their hands, which feels imbued with a relaxing energy.

The client is assured they don't need to actively try to relax and is guided to feel the feeling from their hands spreading throughout their body, one part at a time. A progressive relaxation is used to usher the client into a hypnotic state.

The trancework opens with a series of brief anecdotes that demonstrate the concept of appropriate balance and space. In the first, the client is reminded about the choreography of the tango, a partnered dance in which a couple is sometimes close together and sometimes far apart. The dance's intimate moments feel more passionate because the dancers spend time apart.

Now, the client is guided to think of their relationship as a physical object they can touch. They are asked to consider how they touch it—would they grip it tightly or approach it in a gentler manner?

They are reminded that a relationship can breed tunnel vision and cause an individual to become blind to anything but their partner. An embedded command directs them to "broaden [their] attention" into all the different parts of their life. They are guided to think of the resources and strengths they have outside of their relationship, the things and activities they enjoy that bring them satisfaction.

The complete script continues.

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