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Need help giving free from self-interest

Anonymous's picture

My wife and I are struggling - we have a child arriving within a month and regularly feel disconnected. Much of that relates to me tip-toeing around her as I fear her anxieties. So I show up in a helper mode, but it is anxious and performative. This has her feeling alone and frustrated because she wants authentic love, not anxious love. We purchased the marriage pack. But I'd like to find something to help me step into my role as husband and soon father free from my fear of her anxieties or my crippling desire to please.

Rebekah Hall's picture

Hi there,

Thank you for your question.

Below you'll find links to a couple of sessions that should help, for both you and your wife.

Best wishes,

Uncommon Care Team