Last longer/Premature ejaculation
I used to be in a long relationship where I had really bad delayed ejaculation. After ending it and having several affairs, I have a new girlfriend. The start of our relationship was amazing and full of long-lasting sex, but after having to abstain for some months, I am now ejaculating too quickly and it's making me anxious about my sexual life on a daily basis. I am always worried when I have sex, to the point that I miss my anorgasmic times. Looking back at my history, one can agree that my condition isn't biological/physical. I've started doing physiotherapy and tantric massages, and both the therapist and the masseuse agree that this is a psychological condition and that maybe doing more sex would help me be more relaxed about it. The problem is that I'm always tense about not satisfiying my girlfriend.
I'm probably consulting a hypnotherapist soon, but I want to know if I can use the audios and which one is the one for me.
P.S. English is not my mother language, is that a problem?
Hi there,
Thank you for your question.
From what you say, you do seem to be caught in a cycle of anxiety caused by wanting to please your partner making you anxious enough to ejaculate too quickly, which in turn is causing more anxiety about that and about being able to please your partner...and so on. Listen to 'Stop Premature Ejaculation', focus on your partner's sexual needs outside of penetration and ejaculation, and see how you get on.
And although English is not your native tongue, you do appear to understand it and use it well, so listening to our downloads shouldn't be a problem for you. During the hypnotic portion, the hypnotist slows down the speed of his voice, so you'll have an even better chance of understanding what's said.
I hope this helps.
Best wishes,
Rebekah
Uncommon Care Team
