So I need help with my confidence.  Specifically with women.  I've been divorced a year and a half and I've been in another relationship since, but my low confidence, and self worth ruined what could have been a new beginning for me.  I underestimated how my divorce affected me and I was very insecure, clingy, needy, and had some major issu es with trust, intimacy/sex and vulnerability. This is something I wish to overcome, but I just can't seem to have a breakthrough.  Ideally I'd like to try again with this girl, but I also have an intense fear of rejection and I'm downright scared to approach women I'm attracted and interested in.  I carry alot of shame about these issues and want to choose the right course of action to reach my goals.