“Neediness and insecurity can’t be cured by reassurance” courtesy of Meredith Farmer “Please, clouds, don’t rain!” Not going to work, is it? And neither will trying to reassure someone who just can’t be reassured. They will go on fretting, no matter how you plead. Chronic insecurity in your relationship is a major problem. Why? Because [...]
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How email, text and instant messaging is making insecurity in relationships worse “Are you 100% sure about that?” courtesy of sean dreilinger “I feel so insecure! All the bloody time! I keep on at him – if he doesn’t text me back within 10 minutes I feel like I’m going mad. I know I’m crowding [...]
We posted this a few years back on the Uncommon Knowledge blog, but I thought you might need a laugh. So the above audio is an outtake from when Mark and Jill were recording the Powerful Reframes CD, a training CD for therapists. If you’re a therapist, you’ll know how important effective reframing is when [...]
How I overcame my own shyness, by Mark Tyrrell “Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people”.Andre Dubus “Shyness makes us feel invisible and too visible at one and the same time” courtesy of Nickolai Kashirin I used to be shy. [...]
“I don’t mean to be rude… but you don’t understand! Not if you’ve never yourself felt the crippling fear or the paralysing self consciousness of real social anxiety, never felt that your every move was being scrutinised and judged by other people…” “Loneliness is not just miserable…” courtesy of Italian voice Actually I did understand [...]