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	<title>Comments on: Stop being defensive – the art of true learning</title>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<description>I completely agree with Mark&#039;s article on defensiveness. I couldn&#039;t help but think about Dr. Albert Ellis&#039; Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy when reading this article. Our irrational beliefs can get in the way and we may believe that our work is not &quot;perfect&quot; and we are &quot;failures&quot; because someone is giving us &quot;helpful criticism.&quot; This audio can really enhance our ability to calm ourselves so that we don&#039;t allow ourselves to become depressed or become enraged. And this audio can help us to think more rationally and put our energy to good use by changing our thinking (I&#039;m not perfect and that&#039;s okay. I can practice and improve my work if I choose to but I&#039;m not a failure if my work is not perfect) so we can focus on improving our work. I&#039;m looking forward to downloading this audio and giving it a try! Mark&#039;s work is amazing and I find that hypnosis has helped me significantly with my own mental health. I also enjoyed his reference to Dr. Gottman&#039;s research, who I&#039;ve also studied. I&#039;m a prelicensed mental health professional and I haven&#039;t attempted to utilize hypnosis in my practice, but I believe that hypnosis can be utilized with other theoretical perspectives and significantly enhance treatment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree with Mark&#8217;s article on defensiveness. I couldn&#8217;t help but think about Dr. Albert Ellis&#8217; Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy when reading this article. Our irrational beliefs can get in the way and we may believe that our work is not &#8220;perfect&#8221; and we are &#8220;failures&#8221; because someone is giving us &#8220;helpful criticism.&#8221; This audio can really enhance our ability to calm ourselves so that we don&#8217;t allow ourselves to become depressed or become enraged. And this audio can help us to think more rationally and put our energy to good use by changing our thinking (I&#8217;m not perfect and that&#8217;s okay. I can practice and improve my work if I choose to but I&#8217;m not a failure if my work is not perfect) so we can focus on improving our work. I&#8217;m looking forward to downloading this audio and giving it a try! Mark&#8217;s work is amazing and I find that hypnosis has helped me significantly with my own mental health. I also enjoyed his reference to Dr. Gottman&#8217;s research, who I&#8217;ve also studied. I&#8217;m a prelicensed mental health professional and I haven&#8217;t attempted to utilize hypnosis in my practice, but I believe that hypnosis can be utilized with other theoretical perspectives and significantly enhance treatment.</p>
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